Intelligence is sexy, and men are captivated by smart women.*/ div.yop-poll-answers-1167_yp59a2a13eeafdf ul li.yop-poll-li-answer-1167_yp59a2a13eeafdf label /* Actual text label of the answer */ div.yop-poll-answers-1167_yp59a2a13eeafdf ul li.yop-poll-li-answer-1167_yp59a2a13eeafdf label:nth-of-type(2) /* Custom answer / Other ..................................I’ve sobbed into pillowcases over guys who didn’t care about hurting me once they had gotten what they wanted, and I’ve wondered why the hell they didn’t appreciate every little thing I did. Loving too hard is something that has often made me question if I’m defective. It’s going the extra mile, just because you love them.I always wonder why guys can’t see all the good I do for them, and always ask for more. ” Loving too hard always has you questioning yourself and makes you wish you were not you. It’s the kind of problem that makes me wish I were a sociopath because I’m 100 percent sure I’d be treated better because of it. Real love is not easy to come by, and when people find it, it scares them.Critics of the fantastical aspects of romantic love often attribute our all yearning, striving and obsessing with romantic love to relentless cultural indoctrination through centuries of it being a dominant, captivating and popular theme in song, poetry, literature and film.
Men want women with the four B’s – beauty, brains, body and balance. Don’t worry, you don’t have to look like a model to be beautiful. If you have amazing hair, make sure you wear it down. You don’t need an MBA (if you do have one, kudos to you). Bear in mind that men like toned women, so you should make sure you look good in AND out of clothes. Men enjoy dating someone who can balance their job, their family, their friends and a relationship. They like women who are down-to-earth and not a drama queen.
I’m always dismayed when I get left for a girl who treats them badly. Others see someone who loves too hard and they begin to wonder what the ‘catch’ is.
They assume we’re desperate, weak, or otherwise crazy because they can’t imagine that someone can appreciate them that much.
They’re so weak that when they finally find love, they can’t see it for what it really is or they’re so stupid they see our kindness as a form of weakness in itself.
So, they start throwing new goals and new standards…
Like you, I shower my man with love, affection and presents. It’s the kind of love that makes you want to do things ‘just because’.