Sociopathsare charming, manipulative, andabsolutelyfantastic in bed. Learn how to beat a #sociopath at his own dating game. I need five commitments from you if you want to avoid the wake of destruction that comes from dating a Sociopath. Commitment to your Heart: Healing a broken heart takes time in pain and sorrow. Remember Sociopaths are opportunists and you are at risk for being that opportunity for him.Sociopaths will charm their partners when they sense that they can gain from their relationships. Relationships with sociopaths are full of fun and laughter.You may not know that you’re involved with them because they behave in a way you like. Sociopaths are not necessarily dangerous, but they can make life unbearable.He wants to send love as though we are going to forget the horrific things he did to beautiful souls. Be wary of seductive, fun, exciting, and look for superficial, lying, without compassion and conscience for openers. Commitment to your wallet: Healing from a broken heart is one thing, but add an empty wallet to the broken heart-not so good! Keep your wallet closed in the beginning of a relationship! You may be a savior/caretaker in your career (or not), and do not be the savior in your relationship!If a man asks you out, he should take you to the place he can afford. When you hear about the lost wallet, broken down car, job he just lost, the rent he needs to pay or he will be on the street, OFFER empathy and/or encouragement. (Ted Bundy got many of his victims by asking them to help him unload his boat/car! Helping people is a lovely quality in the right situation and dating a sociopath is not the right situation.
However they are far from harmless and they are more common than you may have thought. Believe it or not, a sociopath is more likely to be the life of the party than the creeper lurking outside in the bushes with a knife.One of the reasons people feel so traumatized when they have been “dumped” by a sociopath is the inequality of what they did for the relationship and what the sociopath did not do for the relationship.Equality in a healthy relationship is a good thing. Commitment to Making Requests Many people think being a chameleon is the best way to be in a relationship. A good partner wants a partner who has opinions, wants, needs and a road map of how to take care of her.First of all, sociopaths have egos the height and size of Mt. They prize their worth over everyone else and feel that they should have privileges. Sociopaths will find ways to charm and manipulate you.They will lie to gain satisfaction from tricking you.While this may be true, the term isn’t reserved for only felons and serial killers. So if your feelings or your well-being have to be sacrificed in order for them to achieve that need, that’s exactly what will have to happen.